Life changes

With success sometimes comes change you didn't expect. My life was turned upside down at the end of September of 2015. As a couple we were finally getting where we wanted to be. X and I were finally living our dreams, I finally got a steady job with benefits and X finally had a better paying job he was proud of. With these jobs and three children came extra stress. More stress meant more fighting less communicating, our relationship was strained, and very fragile to begin with. We had lots of issues we failed to continue to work on. I became tired and frustrated no longer wanting to deal with our issues anymore.Sometimes the mind can cloud your judgement due to anger and resentment. Making you forget, that with all the progress you've made as a couple financially, has nothing to do with the spiritual growth and connection to your partner. We still despised one another. We even got to a point where we felt we were better off apart. Not taking time to think things out, we abruptly made sudden moves.  Not only changing our lives, but the lives of our children. Our children were the most important prized possession that we overlooked in the heat of the moment. After almost a decade we split up our family. Although we split up due to bad times, there were lots of good times also. I mean why else would you work it out for ten years,right?